| Sunday, July 29, 2007 |
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This came from today's PostSecret. I identify with this.
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posted by Calia77 @ 10:29 pm  |
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Oh, how our fears can define us!
If you fear you are only, in the post's terms, f*ckable AND wish to be loved then there is a problem because we intertwine these two so closely together it is easy to mistake the first for the second...
You want to have sex, that's not unnatural - who doesn't and no comeback from nuns and/or monks right now - and it's bloody healthy, but at what price - do you put sex first or love first... or to be more difficult - which do you think you offer as a way of getting the other?
And to be honest in today's society there is little real help from christian or not about how to choose and what that would mean...
I think that if you would limit your flirting to folk who you are interested in and are available then that would be a start - it is apparent that you are GOOD at flirting, so no more practice there required, HoHo...
See folk as human and then they'll see you as human too - too much of the time we spend gauging people up with our own agendas and cross-hairs that they react to us in a similar fashion - humanising them would break that cycle and allow you to treat them for who they really are... and they could, in turn treat you for the person you are... which is what you need out of a loving partner.
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I can relate as well, but since we both admit we can relate we need to change out thinking!!! Its NOT true but if we start believing it, it will become a reality. People always suggest that I just stop focusing on men/having a relationship (usually people that are in one). I know that feels impossible. I don't know the answer for finding the right one, or for how to get him to find you/me. But we can't give up and give in to the point that we act like we're not good enough - cause we ARE!!!!
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åh darling you, you can do both, believe me. Your blog is about love and pain, therfor I can know you can love. Because those who cat feel pain Can`t feel love ider. It is the risk we humans have to struggle with.
I know a lot about this things, believe that to, please
sofia
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Oh, how our fears can define us!
If you fear you are only, in the post's terms, f*ckable AND wish to be loved then there is a problem because we intertwine these two so closely together it is easy to mistake the first for the second...
You want to have sex, that's not unnatural - who doesn't and no comeback from nuns and/or monks right now - and it's bloody healthy, but at what price - do you put sex first or love first... or to be more difficult - which do you think you offer as a way of getting the other?
And to be honest in today's society there is little real help from christian or not about how to choose and what that would mean...
I think that if you would limit your flirting to folk who you are interested in and are available then that would be a start - it is apparent that you are GOOD at flirting, so no more practice there required, HoHo...
See folk as human and then they'll see you as human too - too much of the time we spend gauging people up with our own agendas and cross-hairs that they react to us in a similar fashion - humanising them would break that cycle and allow you to treat them for who they really are... and they could, in turn treat you for the person you are... which is what you need out of a loving partner.